Post What's on Your Mind

[Ellie]

Time to hit the pizza.

 

[Juan J. Sánchez]

Juan, buddy. I'm not gonna try to tell you to feel better about this, because it sucks. It really, really does, and you have a right to feel like shit.

However, given what you've said in the past regarding your girlfriend, I think you dodged a bullet. The partying, drinking, and school flunking certainly made this chick look like she didn't deserve you, and to me personally, seem like she didn't appreciate the concern you had for her. You just busted your ass to pass all three parts of your USMLE, and you succeeded. You deserve someone better than her, and I believe 100% that you'll find someone.

I agree with this 100% from what I've heard about her.

It's difficult to give conflicting advice at the time because when you're with someone, you'll always see someone else's opinion as wrong because you're blinded by the situation you're in. If a friend stresses this point, it would only serve to annoy you about 'how little they know', and gets no one anywhere. It's really unfortunate that it becomes difficult to warn others.

You are a really smart guy Juan, and I don't doubt a fantastic boyfriend. I have a feeling your style would have been similar to mine, and she definitely would not have mixed well with that, always feeling like you're on the edge of losing her, but trying to keep her close makes it feel like you push her further away.
it's hard to explain properly and im spaghetti so but i think you get the idea
Is there anywhere else you can go?

Yeah, I'm going to stay with my folks for the rest of the year. I've already started packing.

 

[Jason]

Nobody came to my leaving do.

I didn't get an invite...

 

[Juan J. Sánchez]

Fuck me. Fuck you. Fuck everything.

 

[Xilef]

Nobody came to my leaving do.

You organised your own leaving do?

 

[Ellie]

Yeah. Although a leaving do at my work consists "let's all go up the pub". Normally a good turnout, but I guess it was a bit short notice, only found out I was leaving a week before.

 

[Xilef]

Yeah. Although a leaving do at my work consists "let's all go up the pub". Normally a good turnout, but I guess it was a bit short notice, only found out I was leaving a week before.

Sounds like a nice leaving do.

The last leaving do I was at involved a night club on top of a sky-scraper, an irish pub, a south-american bar with table-football and 3 other pubs that I barely remember (one was really thin and along the road?).

I have practically no memory of the event and I managed to get home on auto-pilot (I remember google maps and stumbling amongst loads of people, but from then on I only have photos of my feet that I snapped on the way home.

 

[Ellie]

Eight hours left at my old job.. leave on Tuesday. Welp!

 

[Juan J. Sánchez]

I'll drink to you on Tuesday. Lately I've just been drinking for myself.

 

[Jason]

I'll drink for... FOR FREEDOM!

 

[Jason]

LET US ALL DRINK FOR FREEDOM!

 

[Juan J. Sánchez]

I'm drinking for freedom right now. I started at 1 PM.

 

[Ellie]

Beginning to regret this decision. Possibly. I don't know.

 

[Ellie]

We missed 797979.

 

[Jason]

We missed 797979.

... Eh?

 

[Ellie]

posts.

 

[Ellie]

also welcome to amysblog.org

 

[Jason]

Ah total post count... oh well

 

[Ellie]

Fuck. I'm 25 in November. Was 13 when I joined. what happened?

 

[Jason]

I'm 24 in November, had just turned 15 when I joined, lol (Well, found the site earlier in the year, although I didn't actually make an account until January of '07)