What is sexy to you?

[rpgfan_2007]

I dont' think you can define sexiness per se because it changes depending on the person. Sometimes it's physical, other times it's something else.

 

[rexxzecutioner]

I dont' think you can define sexiness per se because it changes depending on the person. Sometimes it's physical, other times it's something else.

Hence the title of the thread. What is sexy to YOU?

 

[rpgfan_2007]

Hence the title of the thread. What is sexy to YOU?

That's what I meant. What I find sexy in a person changes from person to person.

 

[Andy6000]

That's what I meant. What I find sexy in a person changes from person to person.

what? There's got to be some sort of overarching definition for you, it makes no sense if you look at one girl, and think, "god I hate girls with ridiculously huge breasts," move on, then look at the next girl and think, "god I wish she had ridiculously huge breasts."

Because that's kind of the message you're getting across! Everyone has their own personal things they find sexy, which is what this thread is asking.

 

[rpgfan_2007]

what? There's got to be some sort of overarching definition for you, it makes no sense if you look at one girl, and think, "god I hate girls with ridiculously huge breasts," move on, then look at the next girl and think, "god I wish she had ridiculously huge breasts."

Because that's kind of the message you're getting across! Everyone has their own personal things they find sexy, which is what this thread is asking.

Not really. A woman might have a nice ass, but an ugly face. Or beautiful breasts but hideously fat calves. So it really depends, you know?

I can't say all Breasts that look like this are sexy. It depends on other facets of the personality.

Same thing with personality. She might be the sweetest person, but is stupid. Or incredibly smart, but really bitchy.

 

[Venetia]

Ughhhh, not everything is a debate, and it's impossible to live as a human being and not have preferences. (Do you like cheddar cheese over swiss? Do you prefer sunshine to clouds? Do you generally find yourself attracted more to brunettes than redheads?)

Of COURSE everyone is different. We're looking for preferences ...

Never mind.

 

[rpgfan_2007]

I don't have strong preferences for what I consider sexy or attractive.

I dont' go around and say, I only like women with nice boobs or nice legs. It's the total package and combination for me. I could find a woman with the most perfect physical attributes but dislike her because she has a deep voice. I don't understand how people zero in on one particular trait, and think it's sexy. Everyone is a mish-mash of different traits. It's like saying, I love tomatoes but you'd never eat tomatoes with peanut butter, would you?

Love is ultimately blind. We find something sexy or attractive and we cling to that, and ignore everything else. That's love. You don't pick a woman for a breast size, or shape of her ass. At least I don't. When you're in love, you accept her 100% unconditionally. And you really don't see her flaws. That's my opinon.

One thing I can't tolerate however is rudeness. So that is my preference. No rude women.

 

[AoW-Nitewraith]

Idk but sounds shallow to me...

 

[Venetia]

When you're in love, you accept her 100% unconditionally. And you really don't see her flaws. That's my opinon.

One thing I can't tolerate however is rudeness. So that is my preference. No rude women.

Weren't we talking about lust, not love? I thought this was about initial attraction; love is developed over time, and is complimented by lust & sexiness, not defined by it.

And I'll take that last thing as a compliment, heh ^_^

<-- rude on the internet box

 

[sixtyandaquarter]

Biting.

 

[Venetia]

SIXTY! You shouldn't divulge so many of our private bedroom antics!

heh :P

 

[sixtyandaquarter]

What? I didn't mention the blindfolds, rubber gloves, pear of anguish, the clothespins, or even the rubber ducky!

 

[Vinderex]

Personality and overall friendliness is most important to me, though height, hair color, face and body structure often have a role too. I care very little if at all about breasts and ass.

 

[Arcanum]

I love how the conversation here keeps going back and forth between completely serious and completely goofy. Haha...

Anyway, as for me... I kinda have to have the right combination of personality and looks, otherwise the attraction isn't there. I tend to gravitate towards adventurous personality types but it's impossible to generalize. I tend to also be very partial towards musicians and fire spinners... but either way, there are always exceptions. For me, sexy is kind of a "you know it when you see it" thing. The physical is important, but there are plenty of pretty girls, and only a few pretty girls with brains and a good personality fit.

 

[sixtyandaquarter]

I hope your not implying I'm being goofy. I'm dead serious with my posts thus far.

And yeah. Adventure. Exploration. Experimenting. Those kind of awkward enjoyments. And yes. I'm talking about before even possibly hooking up. I'm talking about just being attracted to that.

 

[Venetia]

What can I say? Biting and rubber duckies are hot! <3

 

[tiduskeegan]

Guys, not muscley guys or guys more masculine than me. Definitely not Johnny Depp. I think he's a nasty prick thriving too well on his hobo chic look. We all get to instantly judge someone we don't know at least once and he's who I choose. Mostly I like inquisitive guys because I am myself and it's boring when there's no one to have a decent two-sided conversation with.

 

[DJ Jack]

The main thing is really a great personality, and a 'hot' body. I go for the looks, and I stay for the personality. (Unless she has the personality of a fire breathing dragon, in which case I leave and hook my friend up with her)

 

[khmp]

I consider a great sense of humor a sexy attribute.

 

[Dawne]

Definitely not Johnny Depp. I think he's a nasty prick thriving too well on his hobo chic look. We all get to instantly judge someone we don't know at least once and he's who I choose.

Shame on you..