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What is sexy to you?

coloratura;313462 said:
Physically, what I find sexy? Pretty boys! I'm not attracted to manly/rugged guys - I like a guy with fabulous hair, great skin, and a killer fashion sense. If I can talk about hair care or skin care with him, then I find that incredibly attractive. I also like guys who are tall and thin with dark hair and eyes. Musical talent is also very much a plus!

Yet, while these are my standards for physical attraction, personality is really important as well - probably the most important! (Ideal for me? Outgoing, friendly, energetic and funny. Has to like smiling and having fun!)

I'll be honest though - it's a package deal for me. I have to have both a like of his appearance as well as his personality for me to be interested. I have very high standards, but not unattainable. I won't put myself in a relationship with someone I'm only so-so about.

Your talking about me?
hahahah its a joke...
well i think what your describing is a little bit asian though
but im not really good at musics but i do love musics J-pop and J-rocks 8-)
 
Physically, what I find sexy? Pretty boys! I'm not attracted to manly/rugged guys - I like a guy with fabulous hair, great skin, and a killer fashion sense. If I can talk about hair care or skin care with him, then I find that incredibly attractive. I also like guys who are tall and thin with dark hair and eyes.

Don't worry, kid. It will wear off.
 
coloratura;313462":2g8yctxx said:
Physically, what I find sexy? Pretty boys! I'm not attracted to manly/rugged guys - I like a guy with fabulous hair, great skin, and a killer fashion sense.

I'm not trying to be demeaning, I just want to know .... What's up with chicks that like metrosexuals?

I'm serious--why is it attractive? I'm interested to know, I know a lot of chicks that dig that look, and I totally don't get it. And how often do you meet hetero guys that're like that? I mean, dudes like that look nice enough, but there's nothing there that makes me want to jump him. Please don't take offense, I truly wanna know :)
 
Hehe, I actually have no knowledge of J-POP or J-ROCK! But I like all types of pretty boys, from all continents, just so long as they're pretty. :D But I do like pretty Asian boys a whole bunch, like the ones I see in K-dramas... hehe. And pretty boys in American shows as well. (The guy in Pushing Daisies? Super cute!)

I guess it'd be easier for me to find a pretty boy in Asia, being as that is the trend over there right now, and it's not taboo to be a metrosexual pretty boy over there like it is in North America!

And I probably would like you and Jakey... if you're both pretty boys :D

@Solid Bro
Nah, I've been that way my whole life! Nothing against rugged guys - they are attractive, too - they're just not my type! :] I find many pretty boys in my department (music) at my university, but sad part is they're all gay. :p But straight pretty boys do exist!

@ Venetia
No offense taken! :]
I've actually met a lot of straight pretty boys - but then again, I've met a lot of gay ones as well. :D It's a rarity to find in America, but they are certainly out there. I've actually met and known quite a few! As for my reasoning behind it, I really don't have any clue. Maybe it's because I'm a girly-girl? I just have never gone for the buff, ultra-masculine type - while I do find them attractive, it's like you said, "I wouldn't jump them"!

I suppose everyone just has different qualities they find attractive! It's such a subjective and ingrained thing that I suppose it's really hard to pinpoint why. :]
 
Elias;313239 said:
Just to inform you, the majority of girls in North America are nothing like that. There are the few, but hardly any.

I was saying that thre British size 4 is the equivalent of an American size 0.
 
coloratura;313591":2u9kd4p2 said:
@ Venetia
No offense taken! :]
I've actually met a lot of straight pretty boys - but then again, I've met a lot of gay ones as well. :D It's a rarity to find in America, but they are certainly out there. I've actually met and known quite a few! As for my reasoning behind it, I really don't have any clue. Maybe it's because I'm a girly-girl? I just have never gone for the buff, ultra-masculine type - while I do find them attractive, it's like you said, "I wouldn't jump them"!

Huh, I wonder at the psychological reasoning behind swinging toward body types. It seems to me that the instinctual thing would be to go for someone whose strong and hardy. The strong, hardy ones typically have stronger immune systems and can protect/hunt better. When they have more body mass that tends to mean they are well-off in diet (although I also see why obese isn't considered attractive, since the obese ones'd be slow moving and easily picked off).

It's hard for me to conceptualize sexual attraction as something deeper than instinct.

Of course, I suppose, metro's could give off the idea that they're wealthy, meaning well-off. However the animalistic tendency of being a protector/leader, is lost.

Perhaps some people are less connected to instinct? Or maybe it has something to do with the size of the hypothalamus, which has been theorized to affect femininity.

It's interesting, anyway.
 
I really don't agree with you - if attraction was simply and only instinctual, how could you explain that every culture has different standards for what is considered 'beautiful' or 'attractive'? It's more nurture than nature. While the instinct of sex or attraction to the opposite gender is completely instinctual, what you find beautiful is not.

Take certain tribes in Africa, who do not judge by facial beauty, but rather by the jewelery and body modifications that individual has. Or for example, what is considered attractive in say, Korea (pale, slender, dark hair, small lips, large eyes, small faces, slim, V-pointed jaws) is completely different from what is considered attractive in America. Take for example, many Americans find Lucy Liu attractive, because she fits into the American standard of beauty, but most Asians find her only average, or even unattractive.

What you find attractive is heavily influenced by culture, as well as your individual upbringing, interests, and environment. It's not as simple as just instinct. What is considered 'beautiful' or 'attractive' is not universal. If it were solely instinctual, or even mostly instinctual then it probably would be - but there is such a great degree of difference in standards of beauty that I really think it can't be said that it is.

Also, consider that large and muscular is not what is considered successful in all environments. In the hottest parts of Africa, or other places where it is hot, tall and thin was selected for - why? Because if you are tall and thin, with long limbs, it accelerates heat displacement. Shorter and wider is selected for in cold populations. (The Inuit, for example.) Body types evolved in response to environments. (Even today, you can see it. If two short parents from Canada come and raise their child in Texas, the child will usually end up being taller and slimmer than their parents. Where your raise your child has a big effect on growth - children who grow up in sunny places grow faster. It has to do with the synthesis of Vitamin D.) So your perception that it's instinctual to go for the strong and muscular is not true in all cultures. :]
 
coloratura;313591":2bonc0uz said:
Hehe, I actually have no knowledge of J-POP or J-ROCK! But I like all types of pretty boys, from all continents, just so long as they're pretty. :D But I do like pretty Asian boys a whole bunch, like the ones I see in K-dramas... hehe. And pretty boys in American shows as well. (The guy in Pushing Daisies? Super cute!)

I guess it'd be easier for me to find a pretty boy in Asia, being as that is the trend over there right now, and it's not taboo to be a metrosexual pretty boy over there like it is in North America!

And I probably would like you and Jakey... if you're both pretty boys :D

@Solid Bro
Nah, I've been that way my whole life! Nothing against rugged guys - they are attractive, too - they're just not my type! :] I find many pretty boys in my department (music) at my university, but sad part is they're all gay. :p But straight pretty boys do exist!

@ Venetia
No offense taken! :]
I've actually met a lot of straight pretty boys - but then again, I've met a lot of gay ones as well. :D It's a rarity to find in America, but they are certainly out there. I've actually met and known quite a few! As for my reasoning behind it, I really don't have any clue. Maybe it's because I'm a girly-girl? I just have never gone for the buff, ultra-masculine type - while I do find them attractive, it's like you said, "I wouldn't jump them"!

I suppose everyone just has different qualities they find attractive! It's such a subjective and ingrained thing that I suppose it's really hard to pinpoint why. :]

what i mean by similarity is that i have fine skin,black hair, black eyes, tall and thin...
but im not metrosexual, i do dance hiphop and that mades me build my body... but for my age it is not that beautiful body but i think i qualified :D
 
Haha! :D Oh, don't worry, I see the similarities! I completely get what you were saying. I saw your picture, and you're very pretty - a good example of what I find attractive! You look like a J-POP or K-POP star to me. :]
 
coloratura;313627":2s4jwn5r said:
Haha! :D Oh, don't worry, I see the similarities! I completely get what you were saying. I saw your picture, and you're very pretty - a good example of what I find attractive! You look like a J-POP or K-POP star to me. :]

if only i can sing then i am a star right now hahahahaha
but im afraid i didnt even dream to become a star or a celebrity,
living in a normal life is more comfortable in me ^^
 
When I hear the word 'sexy' only one thing comes to my mind..

Johnny Depp


He is an absolutly perfect example of everything I find attractive in a man, both in personality and physical features.
Unfortunatly, the amount of men out there who are attainable and as perfect as Johnny is slim to none, so I'm forced to settle for less.

I'm really attracted to guys that wear product in there hair, especially when they do the little 'phohawk' thing that's so in style right now:D
I generally go for a slimmer build, but, with Johnny Depp aside, I don't really have a type. I've gone from being very attracted to femine guys who I still suspect arn't straight to scruffy woodshop teachers.
 
Hmm...thats an easy one. If she has female body parts and they are not deformed or grossly overweight. And a pretty face. Thats all it takes for me to be attracted.
 

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Dawne;313709 said:
When I hear the word 'sexy' only one thing comes to my mind..

Johnny Depp


He is an absolutly perfect example of everything I find attractive in a man, both in personality and physical features.
Unfortunatly, the amount of men out there who are attainable and as perfect as Johnny is slim to none, so I'm forced to settle for less.

I'm really attracted to guys that wear product in there hair, especially when they do the little 'phohawk' thing that's so in style right now:D
I generally go for a slimmer build, but, with Johnny Depp aside, I don't really have a type. I've gone from being very attracted to femine guys who I still suspect arn't straight to scruffy woodshop teachers.

I was stylin' the pho last month. Hair is too long now, unfortunately.
 
In my mind, what i would realy like in a women is that she would be confident in herself, have self respect and good morals.

The girls who just throw themselves at a guys feet and do anything just to keep him is not attractive at all to me. That doesn't that she doesn't try to do things for me, but to not do everything possible or close to possible to get me to like her more...:s

Boobs are not something I actually care for at all, if she has boobs...thats great, but I really dont care...and having an ass is really not that great either.

Personality is a key point, I would hope the girl would be outgoing, find humor in many things, have a musical talent...and yet be open in conversation. I myself like playing and writing music, I have wrote many things in my short musical lifetime, which while the oppurtunity has arised...I shall post a link while I am at it...:p

Myspace Band Page - The Randomless 8-)

And about what the girl should look like...I think women should have some self consideration for themselves and not dress all skank like and try to get guys to look at their boobs or ass. It would be nice if the girl looked decent and attractive, but looks are only a small fraction of what a girl to me is.

My last point is that I would like a girl if she does go to church and have a strong relationship with God, for God is a big part in my life. I am not religious in a ny way, I just love God and try to be good on my part. No person is perfect, we are all human, life happen and we make mistakes...(Stereotypes are stupid...lol) I would thinbk of typing more...but I can't seem to get my thoughts together...but thats all I have to say for now :D
 
If a chick gets mad at me, like I really pissed her off and she throws a punch - yeah. Sexy.
I'll take that punch too. I won't stick around. I'll get the hell out of her way soon enough. Just a bit more arguing before she sets off for the kitchen and their shiny steak knives, then I'm gone. Call her up later. Apologize, whatnot. But hell - I'll take that one punch too.
Shit could be aimed straight for my eye and I won't blink.

I don't know.
A chick willing to throw a punch at a guy like me is just unique enough I s'pose. Funny thing is I'm not the submissive type. I can play one on camera, but that 1 punch...

So, care to guess what happened to me today?
 
You're a k1nky one, Sixty! Sorry for punching you so hard. Hope that bruise heals up. ;')

I punch occasionally. Only in jest, though, never hard.

Well actually I punched the shit out of this one guy who totally deserved it, he'd been calling me names and acting all hostile (no, he was not a boyfriend, or even someone anyone could like). Hit him right in the temple--though I'd aimed for the jaw. He fell flat, hilarious. My hand was kinda messed up but it was worth it. It's kinda funny how TV/movies showcase people decking others but they fail to show how f'ed up your hand gets!

I got something else totally attractive to me: contact.

Touching the hand, touching the wrist, shoulder, knee, grabbing around the waist, stroking the cheek. And, well, the other obvious stuff too, but I'm talking about being more playful/flirtatious. Contact thrills the hell out of me.

Oh, and in girls, whenever they put they lean their face on one hand, in kind of a bored gesture, for some reason that's totally attractive to me. And in guys, when they do that "I'm intrigued" face, with one eyebrow lifted, is awesome.

<3
 

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