What is sexy to you?

[CrymsenTears]

We all know there are people who say, "(oYo)*breasts* and (_)_)*butts* are all i look for in a girl", but some of us look deeper. What do you look at when tryign to find a girl for you? I personally talk to her to get to know her personality and then I see if she's like me before I ask her out.

What's your method?

 

[sixtyandaquarter]

1st, this is more a general discussion than a symposium topic.
2nd, this may very well end up a little too mature for the site's intended audience (it even says so in the rules, the site is geared towards minors).

With that said, I'll report for move after posting. I don't see why this should be closed initially, but for anyone who posts after me at least pretend to keep it clean.

Personality is important, but if a person is very much into my interests any romantic feelings (for lack of a better term) would die out and become simply friendly. I'm more into a differing of personalities and interests than a complete blending/melding.

It's all about attitude though. Brash attitudes and confidence. Ego/arrogance is annoying, but confidence which is so cliche isn't. Self respect.

Physically, well that's harder to pin down. I can list something, but it really depends on the combination with other things. Though if I'm liking the person's personality, the physical attraction will -unless there's a big turn off- definitely follows. Darker shades of hair like browns/blacks and unnatural reds. Though vibrant colors are cute. Some people are attracted to people based on the garb they normally wear or piercings and tattoos, but those doesn't affect me positively or negatively generally. They might, but like I said earlier, it would have to be in the right combination.

I have no "method". Attraction is either there or isn't. I don't try to talk to people and build up an attraction to them, that'll just happen on it's own.

 

[holloway]

Depth?

 

[rexxzecutioner]

Physical beauty, amiable personality, shares many similar interests, and appreciation of the depraved and vulgar.

 

[Despain]

Physically- I like big butts and I cannot lie. I like bigger girls, have to admit. Can't stand the superskinny thing that is so popular these days. I want a woman who I won't be a fraid of breaking in half.

Beyond that, I like a woman who is comfortable enough to fart in front of me, laugh at racist jokes and eat a lot without bitching about her figure.

 

[Ninjitsu]

Fart? Sexy?
Uh...Ok....


racist jokes are awsm tho.

 

[Zodiac]

a penis.

 

[Venetia]

Wow Des (I mean SB >_>) you get my approval ^_~

Spoiler: Sixtys Post

1st, this is more a general discussion than a symposium topic.
2nd, this may very well end up a little too mature for the site's intended audience (it even says so in the rules, the site is geared towards minors).

With that said, I'll report for move after posting. I don't see why this should be closed initially, but for anyone who posts after me at least pretend to keep it clean.

Personality is important, but if a person is very much into my interests any romantic feelings (for lack of a better term) would die out and become simply friendly. I'm more into a differing of personalities and interests than a complete blending/melding.

It's all about attitude though. Brash attitudes and confidence. Ego/arrogance is annoying, but confidence which is so cliche isn't. Self respect.

Physically, well that's harder to pin down. I can list something, but it really depends on the combination with other things. Though if I'm liking the person's personality, the physical attraction will -unless there's a big turn off- definitely follows. Darker shades of hair like browns/blacks and unnatural reds. Though vibrant colors are cute. Some people are attracted to people based on the garb they normally wear or piercings and tattoos, but those doesn't affect me positively or negatively generally. They might, but like I said earlier, it would have to be in the right combination.

I have no "method". Attraction is either there or isn't. I don't try to talk to people and build up an attraction to them, that'll just happen on it's own.

So when we doing this thing, Sixty? You gonna keep stringing me along forever? XD

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Spoiler: Ven's on-topic response

I'm special because I have something to say for being into dudes AND chicks. Whee. (And by 'special' I mean awesome. And by 'awesome' I mean not so awesome.)

I've said it before, I'm into both sexes. Don't bother me if you have a problem with that. I put it in spoilers. Don't read on if you're offended.

Guys:

I like manly men with hair. I like them a little on the stouter side, and hairy. That sounds gross. Run with me here. I don't mind heavyset dudes, but I don't do skinny. I prefer inbetween though. And they have to have hair. On their head, on their face ... You get the picture. No shaved, no bald, and -NO- wax (ew). Oh but no unibrows. They make people look like cavemen.

I prefer darker skinned dudes, like latin/native/african americans (I have a decent-sized posterior & curves, and I sympathize with those that recognize it the most ... White guys, I have noticed, generally steer toward the pancake butts and wooden-plank figures, even if they won't admit it, I'm sure a lot of people will disagree here, but this is just what I've noticed, sue me).

I won't even be slightly attracted to a guy if he smokes, does drugs, or is really into sports (a little is fine but I hate [american] football, please don't make me watch it every monday). I also don't dig zealousness, whether they're really religious or really atheist--both get on my nerves. You're not right, not for sure, quit acting like you know you are.

Personality-wise, I want ... Hm, I guess, aggression? Not in the physical sense but I like guys to be tough, to never fall apart, and most of all, to be able to demand things. Nothing is a bigger turn-on to most chicks I know than a confident man who can tell her what he wants. And it's a big turn-off to flip-flop or be wishywashy.

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Girls:

I'm tall (5'9") and I'm not heavy, but I'm not dainty. But I prefer it when a girl is a little more on the dainty side. I think that whenever I'm around another chick (even just friends) I tend to be the aggressor, or the more masculine. I'm not masculine (I like shoes, pink, looking nice, animals), but I like masculine things (dirty jokes, video games, comics, and I don't get PMS). I think that's why I'm sorta into girls that're a little more petite and/or feminine. Not girly-girl, complete with the little dog in her purse and a purple ascot tied around their neck, but sundresses and ponytails are always nice.

This is, of course, excluding the more "obvious" physical features, of which bigger = better, always. I meant petite in frame/height, not necessarily curvature. I don't really like blondes but they can be cute if it fits their skintone ^_^

Chicks bug me when they let their emotions get out of control and blame it on PMS. I don't believe in PMS, I just think chicks like to flip out sometimes and get something to blame it on. Otherwise though I prefer them opinionated, free-spirited, and, of course, technology-driven. Although it's hard to find chicks like that, hence the reason I'm married to a dude .


None of this really is applicable anymore since I'm married but it's fun to talk about :thumb:

 

[Yum]

Someone powerful, someone beautiful.

After all, as has been said by someone before...

"Power and beauty are one and the same."

right? Damn right.

Wow, is that a megaten quote by Chiaki?

 

[sixtyandaquarter]

@Vennie,
You got bus fair?

 

[Despain]

Venetia you have a good taste in men.

 

[rexxzecutioner]

Agreed, minus the no bald part. Because I am a badass.

 

[Ellie]

I honestly don't know.

But:

I hate skinny girls, like the size 4's (size 0 to you Americans), the freakishly skinny girls who look like they're about to snap at the waist.

And I hate girls who have boob-jobs, or other plastic surgery... It's just not right for someone to fall over because their tits are too big when they made them that way.

Oh and over-obsessive-makeup is so not sexy, it just makes you look like a whore.

 

[Rare]

I honestly don't know.

But:

I hate skinny girls, like the size 4's (size 0 to you Americans), the freakishly skinny girls who look like they're about to snap at the waist.

And I hate girls who have boob-jobs, or other plastic surgery... It's just not right for someone to fall over because their tits are too big when they made them that way.

Oh and over-obsessive-makeup is so not sexy, it just makes you look like a whore.

Just to inform you, the majority of girls in North America are nothing like that. There are the few, but hardly any.

As for me, I like an athletic girl, with average boob size. Boobs are a big deal to me, but I don't have an obsession with them.

However, above all physical traits, would be personality. If I can't be myself around them, I...well I wouldn't like being around them.

 

[Untra]

In terms of appearance, I like my woman small. A small butt, small breasts, thin waist, and under 5'5" preferably. I'm a small person myself.

However, for personality, I would like a girl that is maybe self centered, brash, and maybe with a dark sense of humor, while acting shy and quiet around family and strangers. (Think of Michelle from American Pie, but less horny @_@)

 

[Despain]

However, for personality, I would like a girl that is maybe self centered, brash

And how's that working out for you, sport?

 

[Anglachel]

This thread is kind of stupid, more so the title. Your talking about 'deeper' and personality, but that isn't 'sexy'. No one says "Oh my god your personality is so sexy!". I think attractive would be the better word.

It's almost taboo these days to mention looks, but mentioning looks is true. Hell humans still secrete pheremones but we have lost the part of our brain that recognises them. This is becasue we evolved sexual clues linked to site.

People can try and describe what they are attracted to, but they really don't know themselves. Get a guy that says he only likes big brunettes... You mean he isnt going to be attracted to a hot skinny blonde? Yeah right. Preferances are only in your mind. That's my opinion in any case.

What am I attracted to? Attractive girls. There. I'm not with people that say make-up, being slim and big boobs aren't sexy... I gues sthats just the generation and media I grew up with?

 

[Despain]

Get a guy that says he only likes big brunettes... You mean he isnt going to be attracted to a hot skinny blonde? Yeah right. Preferances are only in your mind. That's my opinion in any case.

Well your opinion is wrong. Unless that skinny blond was naked with my dick in her mouth I probably wouldn't give her a second thought- or even a first.

 

[coloratura]

Physically, what I find sexy? Pretty boys! I'm not attracted to manly/rugged guys - I like a guy with fabulous hair, great skin, and a killer fashion sense. If I can talk about hair care or skin care with him, then I find that incredibly attractive. I also like guys who are tall and thin with dark hair and eyes. Musical talent is also very much a plus!

Yet, while these are my standards for physical attraction, personality is really important as well - probably the most important! (Ideal for me? Outgoing, friendly, energetic and funny. Has to like smiling and having fun!)

I'll be honest though - it's a package deal for me. I have to have both a like of his appearance as well as his personality for me to be interested. I have very high standards, but not unattainable. I won't put myself in a relationship with someone I'm only so-so about.

 

[Untra]

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