What is it with teenage girls?

[The Cry of Fallen Angels]

Hehe, kinda failed to phrase it, let me put in in a new alinea =p

 

[raliosion]

Pics or it didn't happen.

 

[Bogus]

Ok, syvkal, if a girl wants to turn on her boyfriend so she wears those things, she's called a whore. Jeez. What a nice thing.

But my point remains, the majority of guys only look at a girl when she's wearing skimpy outfits, if you want it to change, guys should change too.

Over all though, people should wear what they want without being criticized. If a girl wants to wear something showing off what she has, that doesn't mean she's a whore. It just means she wants to show off.

Girls like to feel sexy, it doesn't make them a whore. I agree with Rye entirely on this. I used to dress in short shorts and tiny tops in junior high (only girl with boobs in school at that time) and I was called a slut by many people, mainly the boys. I had male friends to back me up and I often ended up beating up the ones that called me that, but my male friends would tell the guys picking on me that I had been fat all my life and just lost a bunch of weight. I wanted to show that off, I wanted to feel pretty for once, and I wanted to wear the clothes I always saw other girls wear.

Girls have many reasons for dressing in 'slutty' clothes, and unless they're grabbing, pinching or coming on to you in some way they are not sluts. Flirting happens I guess, but I never understood that aspect of women. I don't flirt unless I'm interested, and I never enjoyed hearing about the teases. Guess I grew up around too many men to ever want to be that way.

My point is, the girls you mentioned in the first post probably were little sluts, but don't assume that every girl that dresses that way is one just because of those few you met. Some girls just want to feel sexy, and pretty. We get attention when we dress provocatively, and you can't tell me that muscle bound men wear tights jeans and t-shirts because they're comfortable. Men do it too. Everyone likes to feel good about themselves once in a while, and getting positive attention based purely on your looks is a serious self-esteem boost for most.

 

[Anonymous]

I think the main point was that, nowadays, teenage girls (and sometime a little younger) will dress way in women's clothings. It seems like today's teenagers want to be adults way before their time, and that's probably what disturbs most people. The fact that girls (teenagers and younger) dress like grown women, want to have sex, take drugs and drink more than grown men is probably the problem here, although most people will just word it as "Girls are slutty nowadays" or the likes. There are similar things for guys (the whole "gangsta thing", and sex plays a major part too), but it's shown in different ways that disturb less, considering our heavy puritan heritage (e.g.: seeing little girls barely dressed up seems wrong considering every prejudice we have against pedophilia and such).

 

[Fafnir]

Not all girls are like that. I mean, yeah, there are a few, but the girls I'm friends with(always a friend, never a boyfriend... *sigh*...) aren't like that at all. Although you do end up seeing your fare share.

Of course, I'd take a classy chick over a slutty one any day. Classy just seems alot hotter....

But media aimed towards teens these days seems to have more emphasis on the SHAKE YOUR BOOTAY mindset these days. Sex sells of course. Guys watch it cause it's hot, girls watch/buy it because they want to be hot. Add in some magical hormones for a whole barrel of fun!

PS: Raging hormones suck. WHO THE FUCK AM I!?!? Heh.

 

[Lackluster]

Girls like to feel sexy, it doesn't make them a whore. I agree with Rye entirely on this. I used to dress in short shorts and tiny tops in junior high (only girl with boobs in school at that time) and I was called a slut by many people, mainly the boys. I had male friends to back me up and I often ended up beating up the ones that called me that, but my male friends would tell the guys picking on me that I had been fat all my life and just lost a bunch of weight. I wanted to show that off, I wanted to feel pretty for once, and I wanted to wear the clothes I always saw other girls wear.

Girls have many reasons for dressing in 'slutty' clothes, and unless they're grabbing, pinching or coming on to you in some way they are not sluts. Flirting happens I guess, but I never understood that aspect of women. I don't flirt unless I'm interested, and I never enjoyed hearing about the teases. Guess I grew up around too many men to ever want to be that way.

My point is, the girls you mentioned in the first post probably were little sluts, but don't assume that every girl that dresses that way is one just because of those few you met. Some girls just want to feel sexy, and pretty. We get attention when we dress provocatively, and you can't tell me that muscle bound men wear tights jeans and t-shirts because they're comfortable. Men do it too. Everyone likes to feel good about themselves once in a while, and getting positive attention based purely on your looks is a serious self-esteem boost for most.

Tight jeans and shirts ARE comfortable....I despise baggy clothing..and I happen to be pretty fit...

 

[LordEliwood0009]

I have to deal with a girl in my school that thinks like one.....keeps saying stuff like she wants my banana...mostly when i have a banana on my breakfast tray..but i know she means something else more well....(casts silence on self to keep from speaking)