It's like RMXP.org has become the RuneScape of forums. You know, everyone hates it. They don't know why they hate it, and aren't going to admit that, so they join everyone else with whatever their reasons are. And eventually you get tons of people assuming everyone hates RMXP.org, so they post about how it's dying. Just like RuneScape isn't dying; RMXP.org isn't dying.
When talking about staff breaking rules, you gotta remember that however much you hate the staff it's their website. The website is privately run, they are not here to amuse you. Hell, they could shut down the site altogether and just chat with each other via MSN or something like that.