Dealing with a broken heart?

[Twilight]

By the way, your best bet is to wait until college before going into a serious relationship. A few of the women their are usually serious and not looking for some one night stand or another "lets be friends" type of guy. I know for a fact from seeing the girls in my class that were still single. until we graduated

 

[kip]

i was 6 years with a girl (1st year of school through 6th grade and it wasnt kid love it was serious) i was dumped on the 14th febuary 2000 i cried for two week then i found she was a whore. in grade 8 we got back to getther and we almost had sex but we got caugh i never saw her since

 

[Twilight]

She was prolly put into a all girls school >.>, also avoid having as much sex as possible if you don't have a condom. The minute you find out she is pregnant, you will be on Divorce Court (joking... kinda). But I can relate.

 

[BlackStaticWolf]

That's why I usually keep some napkins or something next to me when I do it.

Hehe... I didn't even realize it could be interpreted that way when I wrote it. I actually spilled liquid chlorine on my leg while doing pool maintenance. The destruction of my pants heralds in a new era of "life sucking." I think I'll go be emo.

 

[Twilight]

Well thats Humans for ya, We hear one thing and interpret the words in another meaning. Such as I like Kids. It could sound like a family man who loves taking care of children or some psychomaniac who has a fixation on children *coughmichaeljacksoncough*

 

[JD_Slasha]

To be completely honest with ya' Erich, your best bet is too just stay away at all costs for the time being. How old are you? I very much doubt that you're really THAT old... just concentrate on something else. Accomplish something great and better yourself so that one day you'll really show her, ya' know? I used to be depressed every day because girls either

1) Would tell me they liked me as a friend.
2) Would lead me on.

I used to HATE life because I didn't have a girlfriend, and that's what I began obssessing over until one day I decided (and this may still not even be the right way) to just work my body out to the point that one day she'll take notice.

 

[Erichermit]

No, Im only 16, not very old at all, but that doesn't mean I can't be very depressed over something. But seeing as how it only happened about 8 hours ago, I'd say it wont take me all that long to get over it....

 

[JD_Slasha]

No, Im only 16, not very old at all, but that doesn't mean I can't be very depressed over something. But seeing as how it only happened about 8 hours ago, I'd say it wont take me all that long to get over it....

I'm not saying that you shouldn't feel depressed over it.. I'm just saying you have so many opportunities in the years to come. Believe me, when I was 16 I thought a lot of things about love as well... as the years keep coming, you keep learning new things about both love and yourself.

 

[Necrile]

Hey, Erichment..I know I shouldnt be sharing my own stories in your topic, but I tried 3 years to get a girl to like me [im 15, now], while she dated many guys. She knew I liked her the whole time, and she didnt feel bad at all. I actually was emo for a year because of that. She mad me do some thing I still regret doing to myself, and well...she pretty much ruined 3 years of my life, and just this summer I got over her..I hope that makes you feel better =\

 

[LegacyComplete]

your lucky it was only a 6 month relationship, in comparison to how you feel Horrible, i've been at it for about 2 and half years now and if that happened to me.. Bang -> Dead

 

[Erichermit]

SOrry to hear about that Necrile, I kind of had a similar experience with a different girl that lasted only 1 year though.

DOn't get me wrong guys, I know i'll get over it and meet new loves. Of course, right now I feel like nobody else will be the same, but I know thats a bunch of garbage. I sure hope I get over this soon, though like I said, I'm getting over it fast.

Thanks for the support guys. While it actually didn't help all that much (there isn't a lot that will), it's good to know people care.

 

[Siru Kai]

for some people it may be nothing , but 6 montsh for many can be a lifetime of pain if not dealt with properly

 

[$t3v0]

True, true...But this does depend a lot on the person's personality and characteristics imo.

 

[Wings]

Without repeating what everyone else has said...just think...you can do better Really there is no reason to get overly upset about it. I don't know how old you are, but if you are like the majority of the member's here (average around 14-15), then it isn't the end of the world. Actually there should be more important things you need to be concerned with rather than having a 'girlfriend' whom you are more than likely not going to be with further down the road.

 

[BoysVsGirls]

To be brutally honest, if your heart was really broken you can't fix it. If this was just a girl you liked a little you'll get over it, but if you feel that you really truely were in love with her then you shouldn't be able to get over it, not to be a downer or anything.

All I know is that I'm with the woman of my dreams atm and if I ever lost her I don't know what I'd do. I'm want to ask her to marry me but it'd seem a tad obsessive if I did. >_>;;;

 

[$t3v0]

How old are you? I've got my beating stick ready and waiting :P

 

[BoysVsGirls]

I'm 16, that's why I made the obsessive comment, but I'm not afraid of comitment. :P

 

[$t3v0]

Seriously...Don't. In my experience I've learnt that wanting to commit to a girl can often relate to you being scared of losing her ( like you stated ), And marrying her will obviously ensure your mind that she's going nowhere without the legal issues to attend to. Yeah, try and rid that thought asap, it's the work of the devil! I've not really had it myself, but I can imagine hat's how some people feel. If a relationship is going under, or you ever feel that commitment will "spice" things up, get out quick...It wasn't meant to be.

~ $t3v0

 

[BoysVsGirls]

Oh I know that very well. I used to preach that to my girlfriends when they got sad after we broke up and they were better. I just feel like I've found that one special person in my life but I wont hesitate if anything goes for the worst (worse?).

 

[$t3v0]

Last post as we're goin off-topic a little.

I know the feeling your experiencing, and it is something to treasure. But like I said, See how it goes for a few years and then decide from there. If you can't handle life as boyfriend and girlfriend for 2-3 years, then marriage will only be 10 times harder. Unless your girlfriend has a 1M home with a royals royce parked outside, Don't rush into things :P

~ $t3v0