Erichermit
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This is probably the wrong place and way to ask... But.. What can I do to help deal with it? I was just dumped and I feel... HORRIBLE.
Dealing with a broken heart?
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High Hopes
Awesome Bro
Play video games. That always works.
Erichermit
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yeah, thats generally what my idea is. I tried to work on my game but I just can't get into it. Maybe I'll go play something a bit for fast paced.
Me & Danielle split up about 4 weeks ago, so I know exactly what you're goin through. I just kept myself busy at all times, if you let your mind wander, it just resets the healing process back to "0". You need to keep your mind free of her, go out with your friends, take up another hobby, anything that will do the job.
Just for the love of god don't ring her.
~ $t3v0
Just for the love of god don't ring her.
~ $t3v0
Despain v.1
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go to clubs and fuck random bitches
How long were you with her/him?
How long were you with her/him?
Erichermit
Member
It was a 6-month relationship. Don't worry St3v0, there's no way in hell i'll become some freaky stalker. Heheh, thanks for the joke Treg. No I don't think I'll turn emo either.
No thanks to Remote. I am perfectly aware that this kind of thing happens in life. I know stuff like this will happen again. I can generally suck it up but some things really hurt, i'm not all that devastated but I was just seeking a little support and maybe some ideas to get my mind off her. Any crime in that?
No thanks to Remote. I am perfectly aware that this kind of thing happens in life. I know stuff like this will happen again. I can generally suck it up but some things really hurt, i'm not all that devastated but I was just seeking a little support and maybe some ideas to get my mind off her. Any crime in that?
Despain v.1
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Dude six months is nothing. You'll be fine. Go masturbate.
Erichermit
Member
I know 6 months is nothing, but I'm young and it's the longest ive ever been in it. I'm actually feeling way better now, thought not all that long ago i was pretty damn miserable.
Despain is right you know, 6 months at the end of the day isn't really anything worth gettin upset about. Unless you saw her everyday, spent endless hours with her...that 6 months will only be 3-4 weeks total.
Join juuni and his fap to the world practise. I hear it's going well in south east asia.
~ $t3v0
Join juuni and his fap to the world practise. I hear it's going well in south east asia.
~ $t3v0
Erichermit
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Well We generally saw each other nonstop, especially over summer. Then I had a bout 2 weeks of me feeling paranoid and shit becuase she lost interest (Probably becuase I was being too attatched. I get obsessed easily... I don't want to hear any repremanding of that becuase I already feel silly about it). So, the 6 months hurts a lot, but I am fully aware it's nothing compared to the much longer relationships.
Just let it be a lesson to you. There's plenty more fish in the sea and you learn something new about yourself and girls everytime. I've come to the fully blown conclusion that girls at 19 are nothing but slutty pricks, but I didn't just jump to that conclusion, It happened to friends and relatives around me.
So basically, I'm stayin away from relationships at the minute. If i want a cuddle here and there, I'll just get a cuddle...Don't have to be seein the girl to appreciate what she can offer you.
~ $t3v0
So basically, I'm stayin away from relationships at the minute. If i want a cuddle here and there, I'll just get a cuddle...Don't have to be seein the girl to appreciate what she can offer you.
~ $t3v0
BlackStaticWolf
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TREG said:
Your forgot to tell him to proclaim often and loudly how "life is pain."
Seriously though, it's not the end of the world. Break ups happen, feelings change, people grow apart... all that jazz. Try to recognize what mistakes you made, and do your best not to repeat them in the future.
BlackStaticWolf
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Faeroe said:
Pshh... life doesn't suck. At least not because of failed relationships. It does, however, suck because I just ruined a brand new pair of pants.
In the famous words of my father... Lifes a *****. Its one of those many test that we have to accomplish before we go to heaven.. or whatever you believe awaits you in the afterlife. Also Off Topic
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Girls are complicated because they are extremely emotional in most cases as far as I know. To little attention will make them think you don't care, To much attention will drive them away. So be careful with what yo do in your next relationship. All I do is give My GF a hug everyday since next month 2-3 years ago (Not getting into detail why)
, Not entirely true, but for the most party, yes... It all depends on where you live and what type of enviroment they live in. Also ya might wanna be careful with saying that. The worst thing any man can do is piss a girl off. Its like opening the gates of hell upon yourself.
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Girls are complicated because they are extremely emotional in most cases as far as I know. To little attention will make them think you don't care, To much attention will drive them away. So be careful with what yo do in your next relationship. All I do is give My GF a hug everyday since next month 2-3 years ago (Not getting into detail why)
Erichermit
Member
yeah, I'm realizing that now. At first I didnt give her enough attention, so I gave her a bunch. But then I forgot to stop.
Despain v.1
Member
BlackStaticWolf said:
That's why I usually keep some napkins or something next to me when I do it.