Sigh.. Need Help Urgently!

[OrbitDuke]

Have you also tried selling your plasma?
It's good for some extra cash. It's like donating blood, cept you get 20-40 bucks for it. I did it once for kicks and it took about an hour and half, almost 2 hours. It's not a great option, but they pay you and you can do it; I think, a few times a month.

 

[candle]

Well my mom agreed to pay half so I'm really only asking for 200$ but yeah I know where your coming from which is why abortion was our first choice.. then we found out it was too late for her to get it aborted because she was already 6 months (yeah, we didnt know till 6 months in).

I really hate to do this, but this really screams bullshit to me. I'm not saying your situation isn't real, but there is no way your girlfriend missed 5+ periods and didn't think, "Oh! I might be preggers!" From what I've heard, most women realize something is off after the first 2-3 missed periods.

 

[mawk]

hey, candle. if you believe the guy, why is it important to bring up potential contradictions in his story? maybe there's more to it, but we're not really in a position to pry!

 

[moog]

Well my mom agreed to pay half so I'm really only asking for 200$ but yeah I know where your coming from which is why abortion was our first choice.. then we found out it was too late for her to get it aborted because she was already 6 months (yeah, we didnt know till 6 months in).

I really hate to do this, but this really screams bullshit to me. I'm not saying your situation isn't real, but there is no way your girlfriend missed 5+ periods and didn't think, "Oh! I might be preggers!" From what I've heard, most women realize something is off after the first 2-3 missed periods.

what there are women who dont even know they're pregnant until its "go time"

do your research and stop being a fagot

 

[candle]

I'm just saying it sounds more like she's trying to trap him. And as for a woman not knowing she was pregnant until she gave birth, the only case I have ever heard of that was a woman who was so fat she thought the contractions were just stomach pains. It was also a joke.

 

[moog]

It was also a joke.

lol u got me xD

 

[mawk]

candle, you're an idiot. it's not your place to give a guy your expert opinion that a woman you've never even seen or heard of might be formulating a conspiracy against him. your own limited knowledge about relationships in general isn't enough to make that call, and it's grievously rude besides.

 

[candle]

I just want him to consider every angle before tying himself to this woman for potentially 18 years. That said, I will shut up now.

 

 

[Fayte]

Yes I was skeptical at first but we went over this. I asked her if she knew the whole time and she said no, and I believe her. Regardless to what I'm claiming him as mine, my name is going on the birth certificate, so he is my son.

 

[Venetia]

it's very possible for a chick to not know for a very long time actually.
many women never get morning sickness.
you don't start showing until about 4-5 months, longer if you're even moderately overweight.
some women experience "spotting" even during pregnancy (i.e. what appears to be a light period). combined with the cramps of pregnancy and the hormone swings, it can be hard to tell.
boobs swell with menses. it's hard to know if yours are simply swelling because it's "that time".
if you use protection regularly it's easy to fall into a false sense of security.

anyway this isn't really about the girl's circumstances, it's about helping fayte.
sticking up for the one you love is commendable, and i don't know if i'd be able to do it myself if i were in your situation.

 

[Fayte]

there was another awesome donation of 9.00$ USD. That makes the pot a total of 46.57... you guys are amazing, you don't understand how grateful I am.

 

[Mega Flare]

hey kiddo. if you need the money sell your ps3/360 and games... you're having a kid not going to have time for that for a while

 

[Fayte]

Some amazing person with a huge heart sent me 143.43 bringing my pot to 190$ USD and for that I thank them so fucking much.

It's crazy because she just called me today crying a storm because she just found out her grandmother was diagnosed with cancer and that she had two months to live... It's really crazy, cancer is no joke I plead to all the tobacco smokers out there to please think about the consequences of your actions.

Anyway, I'm going to sell some of my games to gamestop (they give you waay more store credit then cash which sucks) to raise the last bit, but again to whoever sent that thank you so fucking much it means a lot to me and my upcoming family.

 

[Mega Flare]

Some amazing person with a huge heart sent me 143.43 bringing my pot to 190$ USD and for that I thank them so fucking much.

It's crazy because she just called me today crying a storm because she just found out her grandmother was diagnosed with cancer and that she had two months to live... It's really crazy, cancer is no joke I plead to all the tobacco smokers out there to please think about the consequences of your actions.

Anyway, I'm going to sell some of my games to gamestop (they give you waay more store credit then cash which sucks) to raise the last bit, but again to whoever sent that thank you so fucking much it means a lot to me and my upcoming family.

if your going to sell your games use craiglist. you will get more money

 

[OrbitDuke]

Congrats on the big donation!

 

[moog]

congrats dude! hope you get there for it.

also

if your going to sell your games use craiglist. you will get more money

not really it depends

 

[kitten2021]

Congratulations and I hope you were able to make it on time... Pictures!

 

[So fist]

ugh fayte I wish I saw this sooner. I love you but greyhound ripped you off bigtime. You could've flown on southwest airlines from logan to st. louis for less than 250. Southwest has their gotta get away web only fares and they are ridiculously cheap. The only problem is that Southwest is only domestic flights. Anyway hope the boobs at greyhound didn't take a billion years getting you there. They're notorious for dropping you off for a driver change and ta da no driver available. And they love being evasive and uninformative at the information booth.

 

[Fayte]

Thanks alot guys, especially to the ones that made the trip possible. Yes I went but due to money issues I had to change my trip date. I just got back to days ago and what a trip it was.

The bus was cold and I spent 5 hours on the bus before we took a break in Albany, new york (which was for about 10 minutes long. Then, we got to syracuse, new York at about 9 for a break and I went inside and bought a 5 dollar foot long sub from subway and some chips then went to dunkin donuts and bought two donuts. Then I was gonna go back outside to use my phone but there was a sign on the door that says no one could pass unless their ticket was looked at so I went out the back door. I kept my eyes on the door to make sure I didn't get left. After I was done on the phone I went back inside and was listening to music as I ate my chips when I realized mad time had passed. So I went to the front desk and asked if my bus had left yet and he said he didn't hear it over the intercom so I should be fine. About 10 minutes later he came to me and said it was out there a minute ago and I should talk to the lady.

My bus had left me and I had to wait till midnight and get my ticket changed so I could get my ticket changed to the 1am bus that would take me to Chicago where I would transfer to another bus that would take me straight to the lou. It was 9:30pm. I sat and waited around till midnight and told the lady what happened and she told me if I took the 1am bus I would have to wait in Chicago for 5 hours. So she gave me a ticket that would put me on the 12:15 bus that would take me to new york where I would wait 3 hours for a bus that would take me straight there. I got on that cold ass bus and used my food as a pillow and a towel I had in my carry on bag as a blanket.

I got to newyork at about 5am and walked around and did nothing for 4 hours before the bus finally came. The ride was smooth sailing from there. I got to go to white castle, ive never been there before so it was historic to me.

I got to saint louis at 730am, I was supposed to be there at 5:30pm the day before but I'm just glad I finally got there. I'll post the pictures up when I figure out how to get them off my camera.

His name is Izaiha (eye-zay-ya) Semaj (Sim-Awj) McCloud
he was 7 pounds 3 ounces and was born on august 14th at 8:30 pm.

P.s If it's September 3rd where you are today's my birthday, I just turned 21 and I got the best gift anyone could ask for.

 

[moxie]

awww

happy birthday and congratulations man