Asking a girl on a date tip#1
Say these exact words:
"Hey (insert her name) there's this really cool lounge called (XYZ) and theres something on that we have to check out, it's on (whatever day) lets meet up there for a few quick drinks and have some fun, you're going to love this place, I have to go now as a friends making me dinner...so just quickly how's 8pm work for you? Good ... I'll pick you up/meet you there ...look forward to it, cya"
This gets me a 90% date rate... and it should do the same for you. I've included some nice touches there like "a friends making me dinner" (she'll always assume it's a female friend) and this makes you look good, also that your time is valuable as you ended the phone call first.
Asking a girl on a date tip#2
Always meet your dates in QUIET bars or lounges, never take them to loud noisy bars or nightclubs as other guys may move in mistakenly and whisk your date away, unless you want this to happen my general rule is never take them to busy or loud nightclubs.
Find a cruisy, quiet and half lit (aka romantic) lounge, where there are sofas or lounges as opposed to bar stools which are uncomfortable and pose a problem when the time comes for you to move in for the make out and get things heavier.
Asking a girl out on a date is quite easy when you warm up by talking to other girls first, so call up some old numbers have some great conversations with them and then call your girl, hopefully by this time you would have loosened up a little. Asking a girl out wont be a challenge again!
How To Use Temptation To Get A Date
Here is a little routine you can use to get a date.
1) Think of event or place that is ultra cool.
Examples:
- Upcoming party
- Upcoming concert
- Favorite "unknown" restaurant
- Some kind of an upcoming art event or exhibition (Especially if you are an expert on it)
The only rule is that Whatever you pick should be quite unique and not something "everybody" is talking about.
2) Casually mention it to the woman during a conversation. Talk about how great it's going to be, and then just switch to other topics.
3) Let her wonder why you are not inviting her.
4) Use other techniques to continue building rapport and displaying your great personality.
5) Just before you're about to leave, bring it up again and invite her casually. Make it a "By the way, you should come to..." kind of thing.
If you do this routine properly, the woman will be more likely to say "yes" to a casual first date.
After all, it is much more interesting than checking out the best Indian restaurant in town or going to the bar to see a cool band than to "get coffee" or "get together for lunch"!
How To Deal With Dating Competition
A question that I am asked all the time is, "Marius, how do I deal with competition when I am courting a woman? How do I make a woman choose me over other guys?"
The answer is simple: Just act like your competition doesn't exist.
After all, you can't control how much a woman likes other guys. The only thing you have some control over (based on your own actions) is how much a woman likes YOU.
So instead of worrying about how to "cock-block" other guys from getting the girl you like, just focus on attracting her by flirting, teasing, and acting like a challenge.
If she likes YOU more than she likes the other guys, naturally she will want to be with you.
And if these guys ever confront you or try to put you down in front of the girl, simply act like they don't exist.
Have a "yeah, yeah, yeah" attitude towards the other guys and treat everything they say as not very important.
If they try to act smart or cocky, just raise an eyebrow like you've just heard the dumbest thing ever.
If they try to insult you, just laugh it off like they are idiots.
But whatever you do, make sure you don't lose your cool.
Losing your cool will only make YOU look bad in front of the girl, even if you are not at fault!
FOR MORE:
Source: http://sites.google.com/site/thebestdatingskills/ [google never allow their user to content Virus or Trojan on their services ==> SO DON'T WORRY I GIVE YOU VIRUS PAGE]
or http://datingskills.co.cc/ [forward to google sites]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1Q2V-QxjRQ
Say these exact words:
"Hey (insert her name) there's this really cool lounge called (XYZ) and theres something on that we have to check out, it's on (whatever day) lets meet up there for a few quick drinks and have some fun, you're going to love this place, I have to go now as a friends making me dinner...so just quickly how's 8pm work for you? Good ... I'll pick you up/meet you there ...look forward to it, cya"
This gets me a 90% date rate... and it should do the same for you. I've included some nice touches there like "a friends making me dinner" (she'll always assume it's a female friend) and this makes you look good, also that your time is valuable as you ended the phone call first.
Asking a girl on a date tip#2
Always meet your dates in QUIET bars or lounges, never take them to loud noisy bars or nightclubs as other guys may move in mistakenly and whisk your date away, unless you want this to happen my general rule is never take them to busy or loud nightclubs.
Find a cruisy, quiet and half lit (aka romantic) lounge, where there are sofas or lounges as opposed to bar stools which are uncomfortable and pose a problem when the time comes for you to move in for the make out and get things heavier.
Asking a girl out on a date is quite easy when you warm up by talking to other girls first, so call up some old numbers have some great conversations with them and then call your girl, hopefully by this time you would have loosened up a little. Asking a girl out wont be a challenge again!
How To Use Temptation To Get A Date
Here is a little routine you can use to get a date.
1) Think of event or place that is ultra cool.
Examples:
- Upcoming party
- Upcoming concert
- Favorite "unknown" restaurant
- Some kind of an upcoming art event or exhibition (Especially if you are an expert on it)
The only rule is that Whatever you pick should be quite unique and not something "everybody" is talking about.
2) Casually mention it to the woman during a conversation. Talk about how great it's going to be, and then just switch to other topics.
3) Let her wonder why you are not inviting her.
4) Use other techniques to continue building rapport and displaying your great personality.
5) Just before you're about to leave, bring it up again and invite her casually. Make it a "By the way, you should come to..." kind of thing.
If you do this routine properly, the woman will be more likely to say "yes" to a casual first date.
After all, it is much more interesting than checking out the best Indian restaurant in town or going to the bar to see a cool band than to "get coffee" or "get together for lunch"!
How To Deal With Dating Competition
A question that I am asked all the time is, "Marius, how do I deal with competition when I am courting a woman? How do I make a woman choose me over other guys?"
The answer is simple: Just act like your competition doesn't exist.
After all, you can't control how much a woman likes other guys. The only thing you have some control over (based on your own actions) is how much a woman likes YOU.
So instead of worrying about how to "cock-block" other guys from getting the girl you like, just focus on attracting her by flirting, teasing, and acting like a challenge.
If she likes YOU more than she likes the other guys, naturally she will want to be with you.
And if these guys ever confront you or try to put you down in front of the girl, simply act like they don't exist.
Have a "yeah, yeah, yeah" attitude towards the other guys and treat everything they say as not very important.
If they try to act smart or cocky, just raise an eyebrow like you've just heard the dumbest thing ever.
If they try to insult you, just laugh it off like they are idiots.
But whatever you do, make sure you don't lose your cool.
Losing your cool will only make YOU look bad in front of the girl, even if you are not at fault!
FOR MORE:
Source: http://sites.google.com/site/thebestdatingskills/ [google never allow their user to content Virus or Trojan on their services ==> SO DON'T WORRY I GIVE YOU VIRUS PAGE]
or http://datingskills.co.cc/ [forward to google sites]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j1Q2V-QxjRQ