There's no site EVER that needs three navigation bars. Your site could do with one. And "flashy" special effects like the static and/or snow in your header make sites look rather unprofessional, in my opinion. As for the reflected title thing (the "OtherRealm" logo at the top), try making the reflected one less opaque.
Also, as for content, the only content I see is links to programs all hosted on PhanxGames, so in terms of usefulness, there's no logical reason for me to visit OtherRealm instead of PhanxGames (which, for the record, I would never visit anyway).
Other than that, the color scheme is nice and I like the look of each "block," with the way the borders are done. Just make sure to test your site on several browsers and settings and such, because in one of the blocks (the PotM block), I'm getting big scrollbars within that block.
P.S. It looks bad when you win awards on your own site