Venetia;291771 said:
Worst argument against pr0n ever formed by women.
You stay with one person for more than a year, and chances are you've seen every inch of that person's body. Yawn. Wanting to see other bodies is no big deal.
It's not just a matter of wanting to see other bodies. You're right in that there is nothing wrong with that, but to me, that in itself is boring as hell. "Yay, naked person!" -Yawn. It's what position said naked person is in, and most men (and women) would be more than happy just to see the woman (or man) they are with in those positions.
They want something different, something exciting. Show a man a picture of a naked woman sitting on a toilet...unless they have some fetish for that, they will be unimpressed or disgusted. Now show her with the same lack of clothing, but on her knees and pawing at the camera like a kitten and you might get a more favorable reaction.
I don't know how most women use the argument I mentioned, but I use it in the sense of, "If you want to see a naked lady doing naughty things, all you need do is ask."
Then again, all the dirty pictures my husband used to have were filled with women who looked like me, and I'm content to only look at him. Perhaps I'm just lucky that my husband and I still find each other exciting to look at.
Maybe my opinion is not shared with the majority, but it doesn't make it any less ridiculous to kill a man over porn. Pictures are pictures, unless he's substituting time with you for time with pictures, I see nothing wrong with it.
Every relationship has a few dry spells (a few days a month for most couples) and women seem to handle those better than men (or we stomp around the house, cursing nature), let them have their fun.