A fight Yesterday

[Makasu]

Lol I agree with Roman Candle. Loud music doesn't really do anything but fuel the inner rage within you. And sooner or later you end up one of those people who slit their wrists or something like that. You're eleven and shouldn't be exposed to stuff like that. Its bad enough I was and my younger brother and sister are...But there is nothing we can do about it. I've learned to tune it out. I mean 'cause both of my parents are gonna try and get 1/2 of the house to vote their way so its just best not to get involved in it at all. Its to much trouble and you're only 11. But yeah you should listen to some nice relaxing music. I suggest the Samurai Champloo cd. Great stuff sure to drown out the noise. but do you have like any friends that live near you or anything like that? It might just be safe to go to their house and let your parents duke it out. Sooner or later the cops will show up and then everythings all back to normal in no time. I really am sorry you witnessed that. I hope it doesn't mess you up later in life. So yeah just do something constructive. I draw and listen to music and that helps alot.

Well, If I were in that situation it would become a triple tables ladders and chairs match, cuz if there fighting, I Don't like loud noise and after a while, I tend to snap, So yeah, I'd turn the music up louder.

Lol thats the funniest thing I've ever heard in my life. I gotta try that next time my parents decide to be asses. Lol ^_^

 

[Alexx]

Well, you never said you even WANT them to stay together. My parents still are, but I don't want them to be. I want my dad to get the fuck out because he's the biggest looser I've ever met.

Whenever there's a fight, I confront him. That's my solution. I don't like to ignore it because that will just build up my anger. I walk right up to his face and tells him how he has failed as a human and as a father, and that he is destroying my bothers and sisters lives etc. The right wording can be extremly painful. The funny thing is that it more or less always works. If you're 11 though, I wouldn't recommend it. It will probably not work that well.

 

[Ceroscuro]

I want my dad to get the fuck out because he's the biggest looser I've ever met.

I walk right up to his face and tells him how he has failed as a human and as a father, and that he is destroying my bothers and sisters lives etc.

I guess it runs in the family then.

I don't know what he's done to you but given your lack of an explanation, it seems like just petty stuff. I'd almost love for you to prove me wrong, but until you do I think I've just lost a lot of respect for you. I argue with my parents a lot as well, but that doesn't mean that I want them out of my house or out of my life.

 

[Alexx]

You don't understand. He's been like this since I was 5. His temper is so short you wouldn't think it was possible. He explodes for everything and anything. Like if my sister forgets to take in her toys after playing with them (common example). Or if someone has an accident at the dinner table and spoils the food. Anything! Also, whenever he opens his mouth, it's complaining. Aaaalways.

In the past we've had incidents like him trowing a TV remote at my mothers head at close range, trowing a glass at her (which broke), locking himself and her inside the bathroom and repeatedly beating her, holding my brother up while shaking him before trowing him out the door (my brother 7 right now) etc. Too many to name. It has always been like this and I'm just sick of it. Sick of him ruining my mothers, sisters and brothers life (and mine too). I think I have the right to talk back at him. I've wanted to call the police several times but my mother doesn't want me to. Everyone knows he has a temper problem, but he doesn't want to admit it himself. I should have clarified it better in my post. I hope you understand what I mean now.

It's been better for about the last year though, after I started talking back at him. Before that, nobody did anything to stop it.

 

[Makasu]

Damn thats fucked up. I get you though. My father is like that as well. But he isn't as extreme. Damn, I think you should punch your father in his jaw one good time. That'll straight him out in a second. I can't believe he would shake your brother like that. Damn and I thought my dad was bad. He always picked on me because I was the youngest of three and the weakest one so he would be me for no reason at all. He would tell my brothers to beat me up and if they didn't he would beat them. So I would have to sit there and take it. And because of it I'm this fucked up bastard that sits here today. Barely able to keep from jumping over the couch and choking the very life that he took away from me. But it seems like you have it worse. I'm sorry for all of us that have had to deal with shit like this their entire lives. We'll make it through this. I promise.

 

[Ultimoore]

see Vampet alot of people here can relate to what you are going through some are differant than others but all that matters is that you learn from your parents and dont become them. I myself am a parent now and have learned alot from my parent's actions on what to do and what not to do . My daughter is my light in my life and i thank the bad things in my life cause i know i'll do my best to see that she dosnt go through what you , Alexx and the rest of us have been through. My one suggestion is that worked for me...Martal arts i have been taking 3 differant ones for 11 years now and i dont even have half the temper my father has anymore. meditation always helps . Lets not forget about talking about it to friends If you need someone to talk to feel free to Vent on me ( i'm used to it) PM me and just vent away and that goes the same for the rest of you, Ill be happy to listen and try to help eveyone out the best I can.

Love,peace and chicken grease !

 

[Alexx]

Damn thats fucked up. I get you though. My father is like that as well. But he isn't as extreme. Damn, I think you should punch your father in his jaw one good time. That'll straight him out in a second. I can't believe he would shake your brother like that. Damn and I thought my dad was bad. He always picked on me because I was the youngest of three and the weakest one so he would be me for no reason at all. He would tell my brothers to beat me up and if they didn't he would beat them. So I would have to sit there and take it. And because of it I'm this fucked up bastard that sits here today. Barely able to keep from jumping over the couch and choking the very life that he took away from me. But it seems like you have it worse. I'm sorry for all of us that have had to deal with shit like this their entire lives. We'll make it through this. I promise.

I'm really sorry to hear that. That sounds really bad. It's been better for me lately though. I don't notice it as much now. So I don't think I have it worse. Hope things will get better for you too

 

[Makasu]

Lol that was along time ago. But yeah it was fucked up. Everything is okay for the most part now. I mean he's learned to control his anger, but he still loses his temper for stupid reasons. But for the most part he knows he cant hurt me anymore in my growing of age. Because now he's like old and brittle. OH YEAH!!! can't hurt me now. Enjoi