(preface: i've been with women before but never in a steady relationship.)
mouse (ipod)":3flilh9w said:
Would you in that instance consider it a gay or straight relationship, or would it not matter to you?
wouldn't matter to me personally. i never really cared about labels.
i guess to others it would look like a gay relationship. when referencing that person i would be using "she" or "her", so I guess I too would sort of consider it to be gay. but then i suppose that would depend on what my partner's gender-pref is about that.
In the state of florida it only needs to say one person is male and the other is female (per birth certificates) to get married, so as far as legal determination goes, it'd still be hetero. the wedding'd probably get some protesters, which would be funny.
if i were to switch back to dating girls i think i'd prefer a chick-with-a-penis over a "regular" woman anyway ... i kind of have a hard time getting along with women in general, personality-wise (and menstruation really fuckin grosses me out, so we'd have to be celibate 1/4 of the time :/).
tbh i've never quite seen the allure in butch lesbians (physical attractiveness aside ... i dont find them attractive either but that's an opinion thing). a guy w/o a tool who still gets menses & mood swings. pass!
