The Dateing World, Relationships, Love, Marriage,

[ROOTBEER22]

Beauty is not in the eyes of the beholder but is in the eye of society. Witness by myself, in not only my situtation but others as well from the same or opposite sex. The majority of people will decide if you are attractive or unattractive(this does not include media) phyiscally. This is very clear as I witness though out life the majority of people stated they found this person attractive or unattracitve.


Some say they only the inside counts. Well that is nice to say, but there is no reason to lie. Would you honestly date the nicest man or woman in the world if they are dirty, wear torn clothes, and 150lbs over weight? No. Everyone looks at the outside before anything and few look at the inside/outside.

 

[Dissonance]

...Okay.

 

[Makasu]

Not true necessarily. Would you date the pretty ass person who treated you like shit or would you date the overweight person that treated you like you actually meant something to them?

While its true that looks are an important factor that comes based solely off of what you as a person feels is attractive. Maybe you have a thing for larger people or maybe you have a thing for skinny. Everyone has different tastes and likes and things that attract them to others. Like the saying goes, "Opposites attract." but I'm not going to lie I'm one of those people that lie to myself under the false illusion that, "I care more for personality than looks" but I'd quickly overlook the girl with the "average" look for the pretty one in a second. Even if the pretty one happens to treat me okay and the average girl would treat me like the best I've ever been treated. Its all just a thing of what attracts you to who and accepting people for their flaws in the end. Because no one is perfect. Again though people have standards and some have incredibly high ones, some have incredibly low ones. What we may see as absolutely beautiful the next person might see as downright ugly.

As is my case. I think my girl is absolutely gorgeous but I've gotten [[I got one just a few hours ago]] comments that she's not pretty enough for me or I can do better. None of that really matters to me though because she makes me happy and hopefully I make her happy. As long as your BOTH happy in your relationship the outside world shouldn't have a hand in who you CHOOSE to be with. Get me?

I don't really know if this belongs here though...

 

[FlippyD]

So long as she treats herself nice, and not like a fucking slob it's alright. Class dismissed.

 

[___]

I wouldn't date a person I found physically unattractive for obvious reasons, but I wouldn't date someone solely because they're attractive either. For me, at least, bad personality and low intelligence are possibly bigger turnoffs than ugliness. As far as physical standards go though, I think most people's are lower than they'd like to admit

 

[Makasu]

Thats true. But its because we're all shallow and don't want to admit it to ourselves. But yeah its more personality than anything. Its a major factor with a little bit of looks thrown in for good measure. Because no one likes looking at non attractive people...Thats true all in itself. Sad but true.

You should explain your situation though. No one's going to chastise you because for one we don't know you. don't be shy explain so we'll better understand where you're coming from.

 

[arbiter]

;D

 

[Despain]

THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULD ALL MEET OVER THE INTERNET TO GET TO KNOW A PERSON AND LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE WITHOUT THE BIAS OF BIGBOOBS AND STUFF

 

[Ellie]

But you still have the bias of big boobs des

 

[Despain]

yes she does have nice big boobs but if she didn't it wouldnt change my feelings

 

[Venetia]

lol des is in <3 now so he's giving advice on it :3

its very cute

 

[Dissonance]

lol des is in <3 now so he's giving advice on it :3

its very cute

I'm in <3 with u....

 

[Despain]

lol des is in <3 now so he's giving advice on it :3

its very cute

i've been in love before and i have always given advice on romace stuff just now it feels somehow more genuine maybe because of the internetthing and i've known her for like 6 years and it was totally gradual but before it was very much a highschool thing and yeah i did love her but it was very different and not like i love wumpi it's a lot more powerful now even with the ocean between us its weird

 

[Venetia]

aaaand it's still cute

 

[ROOTBEER22]

So what are your guys standards in looking for that speacial someone?

 

[Whiskey Dick]

Must be hot.

 

[FlippyD]

So what are your guys standards in looking for that speacial someone?

Not immature, treats herself nice, mentally stable, into technology, long hair, glasses, tan skin, nicely sculpted boobs, has a little weight on her, owns star wars memorabilia, can quote any episode of sea lab ever, in a wheelchair, likes animals, missing both legs and one eye, drinks blood during the full moon, not a lesbian, has never heard of the music i like but likes it, has a penis, buys me milano cookies, can do the dishes, votes republican, is despain, thinks she's from another planet, hates anime, can draw better than me but doesn't have enough self esteem to do anything herself so i can force her to draw my own projects, wont fuck up the basing stage of customizing minifigs, writes color as colour, votes democrat, doesnt mind that im broke, doesnt mind that im a sex offender, enjoys the beatles, knows why iron maiden is and always will be better than megadeth and that megadeth's new stuff sucks, prefers infinite sadness over the earlier albums, knows the PS3 is crap but owns one so i can play LBP, has two penises, bought a tshirt from slushie, not afraid to ride in my dirigible even though my knowledge of steam combustion engines in tenuous at best, has three vaginas, dies her hair, goes to church on sundays and does absolutely everything i say all the time without question unless i tell her to question me...

... And can make chili, that's big.

 

[ROOTBEER22]

Here are my standards. She must apply to all of them.

1.must be slender
2.must have a nice cup size-atleast a c cup.
3.must be clean and dress nice
4.must have common sense
5.we must have good commucation
6.must be outgoing and open to me

 

[Despain]

2.must have a nice cup size

 

[Makasu]

I don't understand you went from moping to what is your preference in girls?
So I don't think a lot of seriousness is going to occur. Just by Ixis' post you can tell.

She just has to be a girl. You're a shallow bastard though!
What if she doesn't live up to said standards? Are you going to pass up a girl that might be "the one" just because she doesn't have a nice cup size?

And what exactly would you define as a nice size? Remember the bigger they are the farther they fall.
If anything you'd want a girl you're compatible with. One that would understand you and accept you for your flaws. Not your penis size. :/ I don't know about you but I was looking for a special someone I'd wouldn't be to picky. I mean I love girls with hips and asses, and small boobers' but if I happened to get one with a nice rack and no ass I'm not going to complain because it should be about how she makes you feel not if she lives up to your standards.

And Des in love is some of the most amazing shit ever. Just because he's an internet badass and its hard to see him in a long term kinda thing. But here he is. Amazing.

EDIT: This was typed before Killface moved it.