So I was KINDA close, hehe.
I'll try this out
Well I tried it and i just put a 1 in each bracket so it looks like:
$game_party.actors[1]==$game_actors[1]
And it isn't working, no errors or anything, I just made it say like, if [script] it would say arshes is first in party, if not: fuck off ! and it just says fuck off ! and not arshes is first in party, even when he is !!!