I feel like shit. WTF Did I do wrong?

[DJ]

This is what just happened today.

I opened up my art note and noticed someone drew a doodle without asking me.
The note was about bunch of weapon designs for my game, and that doodle was not needed.
(Moreover, the doodle gun has very bad four-letter name and it is said to shoot penis)
So I erased it.

After a while my friend noticed that doodle was erased and he said he drew it.
Then he demanded me to restore his doodle.
I said no, obviously. And I also told that he shouldn't have drawn that thing in my note
since i erase it.

Then he slapped my cheek and said my mind is fucking shit
and insulted me that going to university is nothing if I have such a shitty mind.
And he even said he wants to beat me.
I was fucking disgusted but I just wanted to forget it and I know he is not gonna listen
what I am going to say. I didn't say a word and just had some nap.

After a while another friend came up.
He was looking at the newspaper and he saw the ad about free brand-new samsung galaxy players.

Then this is what happened :

Him : Hey sign up this event for me. If you get galaxy player, give it to me.
Me : Well, You can do it yourself.
Him : What? You can't even do something like this for your friend?
Me : But... It's your job and you gotta do it yourself. right?
Him : I don't have PC ! You just do it for me, fucker!
Me : You don't have a PC? Then how did you do all the homework?
Him : I didn't just do it!
The guy from before (To me) : You motherfucka say too much, just do it for him -_-
You have lots of time, just do the shit.


..................... ... .. .... .
Is this what they call FRIEND? Is this what they call FRIENDSHIP?
I don't get it. I think I'm totally just used up and fucked up.
I really feel like shit, and I'm raging like hell. My heads are aching.

Something that makes me feel more mad is that those guys always ask me for help
If they are in need -_-

I printed the time tables for them. I even precisely cut them with my knife and rulers.
I printed that guy's self-introduction docs and brought it to him, sorted.

then they just turn back and stab me?

What the fuck did i do wrong? Seriously! I need your words!

 

[Byron]

Wow... This sounds like a good day... Clearly you are BFF's

What the fuck did i do wrong? Seriously! I need your words!

Okay so basically your first mistake was letting them take advantage of you in the first place. Your second mistake was realising too late, yet not being "strong enough" to break the friendship.
You say one of them slapped you? Well what sort of friend is that? Just tell your friends that you are disgusted with the way they treat you and that if they want you to do anything for them they have to give you a good reason.
I think you need to find new friends...

Hope this helped.

 

[DJ]

Wow... This sounds like a good day... Clearly you are BFF's

What the fuck did i do wrong? Seriously! I need your words!

Okay so basically your first mistake was letting them take advantage of you in the first place. Your second mistake was realising too late, yet not being "strong enough" to break the friendship.
You say one of them slapped you? Well what sort of friend is that? Just tell your friends that you are disgusted with the way they treat you and that if they want you to do anything for them they have to give you a good reason.
I think you need to find new friends...

Hope this helped.

You got the point. I gotta behave more stronger..... But I think I need gain more courage myself.

 

[Byron]

Wow... This sounds like a good day... Clearly you are BFF's

What the fuck did i do wrong? Seriously! I need your words!

Okay so basically your first mistake was letting them take advantage of you in the first place. Your second mistake was realising too late, yet not being "strong enough" to break the friendship.
You say one of them slapped you? Well what sort of friend is that? Just tell your friends that you are disgusted with the way they treat you and that if they want you to do anything for them they have to give you a good reason.
I think you need to find new friends...

Hope this helped.

You got the point. I gotta behave more stronger..... But I think I need gain more courage myself.

Well how are you planning to gain the courage?

 

[Xhukari]

Doesn't seem like like your friends respect you much.
Which means they most likely aren't after your friendship, but what they can get from you.

Though on the flipside, this is only your half of the story, and you might have perceived it totally different to the actual situation that occurred. I know my brother does this all the time. So take what I said with a grain of salt.

 

[DJ]

Wow... This sounds like a good day... Clearly you are BFF's

What the fuck did i do wrong? Seriously! I need your words!

Okay so basically your first mistake was letting them take advantage of you in the first place. Your second mistake was realising too late, yet not being "strong enough" to break the friendship.
You say one of them slapped you? Well what sort of friend is that? Just tell your friends that you are disgusted with the way they treat you and that if they want you to do anything for them they have to give you a good reason.
I think you need to find new friends...

Hope this helped.

You got the point. I gotta behave more stronger..... But I think I need gain more courage myself.

Well how are you planning to gain the courage?

Actually that's the biggest disaster.. ;_; ........... I'm just feelin very bad and can't just do anything when it comes...

 

[Venetia]

o___O

Those are friends? They sound like bullies.

 

[Jason]

... Me and my mates are like this all the time, personally I don't see the problem :huh:

 

[Xhukari]

Gaining Confidence... thats a hard one.
A change of image might help.
Get some new clothes, a new hairstyle?

 

[Byron]

Gaining Confidence... thats a hard one.
A change of image might help.
Get some new clothes, a new hairstyle?

I agree with this, although. Change yourself, but start with things you feel comfortable with changing.

 

[PandoraShock]

Naw thats not a true friend, my friends and I say mean stuff to eachother all the time but none of it is like that, and we are just joking around. If he got pissy over a drawing that you erased from Your Note Book and then turns around and gets pissy when you don't get him free stuff. then he is not a good friend to have, drop him and kick him to the curb because he is just going to keep you held back, (that or man up and yell at the fucker (its what I did with my father to get him to listen to what I had to say) yelling isnt good but sometime you have to go that extra step to get someone focused)

 

[bacon]

Yelling is the worst idea. It automatically escalates the situation and what you say while yelling is pretty much pointless because you aren't communicating in a good way. When someone yells at me you can bet your sweet monkey's behind that im not listening and am more focused at you yelling.
You need to stop being so sensetive. Tbh it looks like you told them no and that is 100% okay. You shouldn't feel bad about saying no to someone. So stop feeling bad because it sounds like you handled it finely. Saying no does not mean you are a bad friend. Ultimately your friends aren't respecting your wishes and opinions and if that is the case then either they need to start respecting you as a friend or you need to sort of drift away from that.